There’s no need to equivocate here, @Ari Hadar. This loan is a scam, through and through.
You could have stopped at the first sentence. Legitimate lenders transfer money through neutral parties such as escrow, title, or a closing attorney -- however it’s done in the state you’re borrowing. The only exception might be a construction loan, but only after the purchase money has been funded thru a neutral party.
No one, not even Fannie Mae, is lending at 2%.
Origination fees, or points, are due when the loan funds, not when it’s approved.
The letter you present has been published here on several occasions in almost the exact form and always identified as a scam:
https://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/49/topics/913193-is-this-a-legit-private-money-lender
https://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/49/topics/302281-private-lender?page=2
You’ve placed yourself at a vulnerable disadvantage since it appears you live in Israel yet want to borrow in the US. Yes? It will be doubly hard to find a lender willing to loan to someone who lives out of the country. Nonetheless, I encourage you to find lenders locally to where you are investing.
Go to Meetup.com and contact some local real estate club owners. Ask them which lenders regularly attended their club before the pandemic and who have the best reputations. These are the lenders you want to meet, preferably in person, but at least online using Zoom or Facetime.
With the number of scammers out there, Ari, blindly searching the web for lenders using Facebook, LinkedIn, Craigslist, or the like, will not end up well for you. You truly have no idea who you are communicating with and some of these scammers are very slick. Plus, by questioning lending terms that are clearly scams, it doesn’t appear you even know what to ask. Read here: Private Money Lender - How to Qualify the Lender and good luck to you.
I indentified the danger by upfront payment. I found a lender from new york through referral that seems reliable even though it 65% refi loan that is hard to cash out...