Nathan Emmert I don't think when we talked about it that he necessarily advised me to do it, but he did not advise against it. For example, I had asked him the question of," When presenting to private lenders, how can I make sure that I am in compliance with SEC laws?" From that point, he did not advise me not to approach family members for private lenders.
However, private lending is not our only option. We have been approved by Brookview for a loan, however the terms are a bit against our favor.
We were approved for 100k, yet we can't use any other creditors, the rehab can't be more than the purchase price of the house, the rehab has to be less than 35k, we have to pay $1000 up front and need 20% reserves in the bank. The property also cannot be less than 1000 sq. ft, and interest rates are 14.99% and the points are 4.
The problem that we are having is that we do not have the full reserves of 20% for a 100k loan. We are very close, but not all the way there. If I have a family lender who does not want to be a lender, I was hoping that we could at least get the rest to have the 20% reserves in the bank.
Besides that, we have searched everywhere for good hard money lenders in the Philadelphia area and New Jersey area and even at the south jersey reia and the DIG members are telling us simply to stay away from hard money all together and go with private money, because the hard money lenders can really get a one over on you.
Besides that, with whatever property we rehab, all of our money will be tied up in one deal, which we are not too happy about.