@Sheila Campbell I first found the deal then presented it to my potential partners. I explained how they would be making their money back, ROI, exit strategies; basically an operating memorandum for a small property. It hurt a little to give up a chunk of the cashflow but I've gained the experience of forming and maintaining a partnership while also getting to draw from the past experiences of my partners as well.
On another note, since you are military (I am as well), you should look into the group Active Duty Passive Income (ADPI). Those guys are all military investors (officers and enlisted) who have built their real estate portfolios while actively servicing. They have been invaluable sources of knowledge and experience for me.
Also, just because you used your VA loan doesn't mean you can't use it again. You have up to a set limit (which is based on the state and federal rules) and if you don't use the full amount, you have the remaining balance available. For example, I bought my house in VA Beach for $235k. My VA loan limit is $460k so I still have about $225k available to buy another primary residence if I desired. And if I wanted to regain my full VA loan amount, I can refinance out of the VA loan to a conventional loan and start all over again.