@Jeffrey Evans
I came home one day (while my wife was 2 months pregnant) and told her I would be liquidating ALL of our retirement accounts (paying the penalties) to invest in rental properties in Newark, NJ. Her response was a slow "Are you sure?" and without hesitating I responded emphatically I'm POSITIVE!! The 1st year was a mess as I had 4 deals fall apart but in February of year 2 I bought a turn key 3 family, then in May of that year I bought a 2 family that needed a $70K reno. In year 3 I was still struggling but I bought 2 more properties that needed work and by the end of that year we finally started seeing the fruits of our labor.
As long as your committed to this Real Estate game your wife will see that and everything will work out...if your patient. You will get tested and usually right in the beginning to make sure your up for the challenge. If you can make it through those initial challenges, the dividends this game pays over the long term are SO WORTH THE WAIT. Good Luck and hope that 1st turn key deal works out for you because that can be the catalyst you need as my turn key deal was for me.