I've pretty much reached the conclusion that this isn't feasible. I've called direct lenders, loan servicing companies, brokers, etc. and they've given me contacts to call and I've followed up on those as well. (There are a few people who haven't called back yet and a few that are reaching out to have others call me, so there is still a chance that something might happen but from all of my conversations and what I've learned it doesn't seem realistic.) No one is going to underwrite this note for me. The basic reason is NO PROFIT/TOO MUCH RISK. The only thing that makes sense to them is that they would either have to be making the loan, or be a principal in the transaction, or make the loan and then sell the note to me... and none of them would even do that. And, none of that works for me.
I just talked to another guy who owns a private lending company and has 35 years in the business and is also well versed in buying and selling notes. He told me that if I do this through escrow and document everything, have an exper RE attorney draw up and bless the note, and have a service company service the loan and keep records for two years, that the note would be just as valid as if it was originated by a MLO.
He said that the precedent is a 1981 Calif Supreme Court finding that a seller carry back is an extension of the price of the property and is not a loan. As I learned earlier, technically, it isn't a loan it is an extension of credit. And Article 14 of Dodd/Frank, the SAFE Act, etc. will not have any bearing on this or cancel the validity of this note. A seller carryback note, written by attorney, recorded standard trust deed, lender policy and a decent loan file, seasoned for 2 years through a loan servicing company will hold its own and can be sold at a later date.
I really appreciate all the help and input from everyone but I think it has become pretty clear as to what path I need to take. I believe I'm being advised to do something that no one has actually done before. Can't waste any more time on this, I've got to go into motion.
I'll wait a day or two to hear back from the people I'm waiting on but after that, if nothing changes on this, I'm going the route of the escrow with RE attorney to put this seller carry back together.
I'll let you know how this turns out.