Old(er) thread, but I enjoyed reading it. Couple of thoughts.
Couple of thoughts:
I -love- buyers that will bid themselves up based on what they think will pass. I bid what *I* am willing to pay, if that doesn't work for the seller, I move on to the next widget (house, car, boat, restaurant, etc).
If your current agent isn't getting it and you're working with them, bring in a second agent start submitting through them instead. It -is- a numbers game in more ways than one.
A bunch of rambling:
A lot of the agents that post about what they'll accept from you, offer-wise, are likely just protecting their time and working off their personal beliefs and frankly it's not their money that's being spent to buy the property. Texas cranks out new agents every single day, I'm sure Illinois is the same, I'd go find one that's hungry and get them to submit my offers. Average agents are a dime-a-dozen - a really exceptional agent will work with you to understand your strategy and try to help you maximize your success (and theirs in the process).
Tune out the negative talk because there are a LOT of people that love to spread FUD (Fear, Uncertainty, Doubt). Find what works for YOU and keep doing it. Anytime someone tells you that you can't do it, take it as a challenge to prove that you can rather than accepting it as a limit on your abilities.