Even before you start investing, you have to get your finances and time management in order. Like these things:
1) Get your finances in Mint or Personal Capital
2) start working on cutting your expenses
3) start trying to find ways to save up more time in your day. Like maybe work from home to save commuting time, etc.
4) while saving this money (now a higher rate due to the better income/expense gap) you need to start getting educated. Podcasts, books, researching markets, etc. Books like Set for Life, the Millionaire Next Door, the Millionaire Real Estate Investor, Rich Dad Poor Dad, Cash Flow Quadrant, etc. You need to have this education so you know make smart choices.
5) Start looking for real estate locally. Analyze different deals so you can figure out what a good deal looks like. Do it over and over.
6) When you have enough saved up, pull the trigger. I wouldn't even do a rehab for your first one, just buy one that cash flows right out the gate and is setup to have minimal problems for years (i.e. newer roof, furnace, etc).
After you have that one, things will start snowballing. You just need that first one. After things will get a lot easier because of the confidence boost it will give you.
All of these guys touting syndications, that's great if you make a crapload of money each year. Most people don't, and would be better being more active, at least to start. Basically, if you have more money than time, do passive, and if you have more time than money, do active. You have to decide how bad you want it as well, you have to make some sacrifices if you want to get ahead financially.