I wanted to see if I can add any value to your questions posed and the answers, so here's my thoughts: 1) I was told to get a real estate agent to help, I have been trying to get an agent to help me, but most of them never get back to me and the ones that do, and I tell them what I am interested in doing, they never follow up with me and it is hard to keep chasing them, any advice as to what I should do about this? as an agent, I'd want to know that you have actual money backing you up, so when we go and look at properties we aren't just doing a housing tour. I have no problem showing the properties if I know you have money backing the deal, but walking through properties costs money and time for the agent. So- can you get a proof of funds letter ready to demonstrate your ability to move on a flip property? Be very clear on your vision and direction, and maybe even have a few properties you're looking at and bring those to the table with your funds letter. If I received a call along the lines of "Hi, I'm interested in house flipping and I need an agent to help me on the buy side and the sell side, I have funds secured and I have these properties identified as ones I'd like to look at. I need to know that you can help me analyze an accurate ARV..." Then I know you've got some things together on your end. As far as calls not being returned, keep calling till you get one that picks up or calls you back. There's a lot of flaky ones so don't be discouraged, just know you are sifting. Every single aspect of the real estate business involves persistence! Consistent effort over time.
2) I would try to do deals myself but I don't know how to do that, I have no contracts and I have no clue how to make and write an offer to even start anything off, the only way I can think of making any offers is with an agent, but that will cost the seller an agent fee and will minimize my chances of getting any deals, what should I do about this? If the seller has an agent already, they know they are paying the agent and it shouldn't really minimize your deal chances. If the seller agreed to pay an agent 6%, and you come in with no agent, that seller agent is not necessarily saving the seller money by you not having an agent. As per my answer to number one, sift, find an agent willing to buckle up with you. If you are shopping for off market deals with no seller agent involved then yes, that could be a consideration for a seller not wanting to pay buyer agent fees. In which case you should evaluate if your agent is spending time with you and bringing value, then you might consider paying your agent if the seller won't, and perhaps you can settle on a flat fee on the buy side and hand them the listing on the sell side. Just trying to kick some ideas out there.
3) Is it best to try to get a partner, someone who is already experienced? I have tried that as well but no one is really interested, how do I go about this? I wouldn't partner with someone I don't know. So, I'd overcome this by getting to know people and them getting to know me. What value can you bring to a business partnership? What is your value proposition? It is probably a wise move to go about this with a partner initially, so decide on if you are going to and then take the appropriate steps to securing it. Remember, consistent effort over time!
4) Even the distressed houses are only offering to be sold for a max $100,000 lower than regular asking price, which can't turn any profit, is it due to the market today? Is it even worth it to try to do flipping in todays market? As others stated it is a challenging market. It doesn't mean it can't be done but it should show you the benefit of having an experienced person you partner with. If you bought a flip today, and it took 6 months to finish, and the market trajectory is downward over six months, can you still profit if the house value is whatever % less in 6 months? Maybe a consideration for you is that over the course of the next year, instead of getting a flip house, you spend time and invest in networking (invest meaning time, not necessarily money), securing an agent, contractors, and maybe even leads. Maybe you find a lead on a flip house and you've got a network of flippers you work with and then can feed them a project (bringing value to them) and you can "partner", or shadow, the whole endeavor.
Good luck! Stay consistent!