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Frustrated! Can't get offer accepted -- when will this end?
It's been a year trying to buy a multi fam for owner occupy -- been offering 30k+ than listing price and waiving everything but nothing seems to work. Idk when this will end.. Mostly looking at Middlesex, and essex county
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Try offering a couple thousand towards the seller's closing costs - a little goes a long way to show you're motivated and willing to work with them!
yeah just that they not even talking to us because they probably got a cash offer smh
I would encourage your agent to look at off market opportunities - expired or cancelled listings, posts for one side for rent (could be a tired landlord or an investor with multiple properties). Creativity is key in this market!