Who to trust...new investor looking for lending

[Michelle T.]

Have my first deal on the table and the lender I thought was good to go, may actually not be. Not sure to be honest who or what to believe. Who and how do you trust anyone out here? I know this topic has been beaten to death and there are "verified" lenders, but how do you believe who posts them...

Frustrated beyond belief, any guidance would be greatly appreciated.