Getting Security Deposit from Property Manager

[Regina Bailey]

We have had our home with a property manager for the past 6 years.  We told them in February that we were discontinuing our contract with them because we wanted to sell the property.  The tenant moved out 5/31.  We are out of state and I had my realtor go inspect the house she states that the house has not been maintained.  It smells of dog urine, there are claw marks on the window sills, roaches everywhere, soap scum/dirt in the tubs/sinks and tile floors, a broken window, and zero yard maintenance....etc, and she has sent me pictures of everything.  She wants me to tell the property management company to give me the pet deposit and security deposit so that I can use the funds to address these issues.  Can I do that?  If so, what do I say?

I really don't trust that the property manager is going to use the security deposit in my best interest... we are a military family and fixing to retire, the equity in the house was our nest egg for our 'forever' home :(