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Private money between friends
Hi everyone,
I am interested in borrowing money from friends and family to buy more real estate. I have used hard money in the past and I am trying to see if I can eliminate some of the costs associated with the HM lenders.
• How would you structure a deal with a friend/family?
• What percent return do you offer?
• What kind of lawyer do you contact to draw up the paperwork?
Thank you,
Eric
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@Eric Knittel I structure my deals on shorter terms, 1 year max. Amortization rates are really up to you too. I ask for 5% to 10% depending on the situation. I don't use a lawyer, I write it up myself and have it notarized. Depending on how close they are to me, I may or may not ask for points and I may or may not ask for security. I don't lend just because they are "friends or family". The use for the money must be sound. I probably ask more questions then a HM because I know more then money is on the line. If you are going to borrow from family, you better not default or Thanksgiving will suck... hahaha.