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Meeting with a private lender tomorrow
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@Walter Ciucevich Congrats on using private lenders. I think the answer to your questions completely depends on the relationship you have with the lender. If they are close friends/family, the conversation can be a more open one regarding what they "need" to make it work for them. If it is more of an acquaintance type relationship then I think you have to run the numbers and bring your best (or close to best) offer to the table. That is if the first meeting goes far enough to actually talk that detailed. The first meeting might be more of a "this is what I have done" and "here is where I see myself going" conversation to see if they are interested in that. If you are experienced and have other lending options and they are just "another" lending option then I would keep it low (6%-10%) interest rate with 1-2 points. If they are your only option to do deals other than hard money lenders than maybe you bring them in and do interest plus a % profit or increase interest and points. If they are close family and friends you can probably get away with 8%-10% interest with no points. I currently have 6 people that will 8-10% with no points depending on the deal. I don't think you will have much luck with percentage of the profit with no interest type of loan unless they are really close family/friend that is wanting to help you out. I would also not even bring that up unless you are pretty experienced or they are pretty experienced. Ethically you should have some financial responsibility to take care of your lenders and if you and they don't have any experience, you are setting yourself up to fail with someone else's money. I would have a hard time sleeping at night. If on the other hand this person is very experienced then you could partner with them and split it 50/50 and you could have them help you learn.