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Should I stop pursuing these leads?
Hey BP Community quick question. I have a person in my community who is known as a “slum lord”. His company and apartment complexes have TERRIBLE reviews. He has over a couple hundred properties in my town, and a lot of them need work. On my prospect list I have about 25 properties BEFORE I stopped writing the rest down because I just said I gotta figure out a way to get in contact with him.
I’ve called his leasing office almost twice a week and left notes for the past 4 months, and I’ve even went to his house (he was not home but his wife said that she would tell him I stopped by). I normally would of stopped trying to reach out but his office keeps saying he is looking to sell? Could he just tell them that as a generic response? He has a ton of properties that are boarded up/vacant and some complexes that are getting run down.
In a worst case scenario I’d love to even take him to lunch and learn how he accumulated all of the properties. Should I just stop trying to get in touch with him?
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Do over. When I my kids had a nightmare I told them in envision the fix, step by baby step to make it happy, then do it.
Time to research who he used for title, type of entity, who is his CPA, look for a soft introduction. What church does he attend and what cultural parallels can you find? What do you have to offer besides bugging him to go to a dinner that he doesn't need? Did the city or county fine him- maybe you can fix that? Ask for his advice on fixing a problem you have? (works for a woman but I can't see your face, can you make a sweet face?)
The movie Grumpy Old Men comes to mind where he yells "you kids get off my lawn" (they aren't on the lawn).
ALWAYS RESIST stereotypes. Find common ground. Offer to help him for free, "I'll mow the lawn at 12 Pine Street if you will chat with me for fifteen minutes." Show up with the tools that matches the offer: "I can pick up the trash at x address (knowing he has a problem there) and you have a broom and black garbage bags in hand. Or do you have a higher skill to offer???