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Lender or Bank Loyalty?
Question: Is there purpose to showing bank or lender loyalty when obtaining additional loans?
I know from the Podcasts and reading these forums that some people enjoy having a relationship with their lender. My thoughts on loyalty for this reason leave me confused.
My understanding is that banks make decisions on whether or not to loan money based on math (does my salary justify the loan, how much do I pay in other debt, how much am I putting down, etc.) and that the numbers either work, or they don't. I didn't think that banks have the wiggle room to say "You don't make enough and my software is showing a "NO", but I'll lend you the money anyway, because you seem smart and I've loaned to you in the past!"
I look at bank loans like I do airline tickets: I go on Kayak/LendingTree/etc. type comparison site and go with the cheapest available. Can you share your thoughts on the above? Thanks
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Hi @Kristina Jensen,
I know many people believe in the cheapest option. I sure know plenty of them. I don't have a personal type relationship with them. Usually they are hiring a new painter every week, individual roofers on every project because there was some spat over money and work performed. Wholesalers never send them anything because the arguments and debates over cheapest option are exhausting. When something comes along I will pitch it over to them if my regulars are not interested, but for the most part I auto add 20% so that they can feel like they fought the price way down when we get it to the actual price.
The people I work with on a regular basis give me good rates (not the best, but I don't pay retail). They make enough money that it's worth getting to me in a timely manner. Worth pushing things through when they have to and passing on savings when we can all make a decent buck. I use their services and they use mine when the time is right. We all cut prices, but we all still eat and have time to spend with our families.
As far as my mortgage people I have a couple but they can cover any situation I run into so they get my business and my referrals. I don't go around them for my personal stuff and if a client asks they get the referral. If I call on Sunday night, I most times get an answer, if not they will get back to me as soon as possible. Which is fine with me.
I have said it before and I live by it. This business has nothing to do with real estate and everything to do with relationships. Your loyalty will be paid back by them when things come up. If you aren't you will be a number (which some are fine being). That generic internet lead (to go with the other 40 that came through today). It's just a whole lot more work to chase that dollar everyday for every item. I have the trusty old group of people to call and I know things get done.
Good Luck in your investing however you choose!
EDIT: Side note, I have seen people sitting at the closing table waiting for a call or check that never came. I have seen people get the call 2 days before closing. OOOOPS we missed this and we can't close. The first time that happens and a deal worth 150K in profit vanishes, you start to find the people that get it done and right.
- Mike Cumbie