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Best Housewarming Present for Sellers
What is the best housewarming gift that you bring to your first meeting with a seller?
Good morning everyone! In the past few months I've been visiting sellers at their homes to talk to them about their situation and perform an initial inspection of their property. I always bring a gift such as cookies or bread from a bakery. I'm wondering what works best for you and if it's even needed at all?
P.S. I'm currently talking to sellers in the Silicon Valley (a.k.a. the Bay Area)
Thanks!
-Sean
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@Account Closed I don't do this either for my rentals, but I know people do this for primary residences. When I bought my home I had my agent present a hand written letter that I wrote, giving the sellers some background on my family and why we wanted the house so much. I am not sure what drove them to choose us over 12 other offers, but I like to think the personal connection helped.
Basically in a competitive market, standing out and being remembered can make the difference between a win and a loss. So I would vote that you continue the practice. But it might get a little expensive if you are always buying the food... maybe you should learn to bake hahaha!
Good to see you are still pushing forward!
-Arlen