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How do you KNOW your lender isn't going to buy your find?
I was wondering if any of you have had doubts in sharing your candidate property address and price? If it's a sweet deal, then they could just delay your proposal and jump on the phone....
Maybe it's just me. I felt TRUST was worthy of a discussion. How do you confess everything you know and feel the organization isn't going to beat you to the punch??
Trust. Tell me how you do it.
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I will tell you the number 1 reason, and it has nothing to do with trust. It does have everything to do with why the lender is a lender. Ready? Here it is:
The Lender won't steal your deal, because they don't want your deal. If they did, they wouldn't be lending in the first place.