its Day again

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I posted on here just starting out and scared, got my A%$ an eye opener from some of you. Thanks by the way. Anyway spent some time in the probate office the other day. Got a list but all the info has is the peoples name or trust name. How do I actually locate who can make a decision on the property? Also I came across a house that the elderly women has moved out into a retirement home and the house is headed for falling down. I was able to locate her but she is old school and wants to make it a womens retreat and has no interest in saling it. Her kids are goin to get it in the trust and they dont want it. Is there any strategy to creating a deal with her to fix the property and do what she wants to with it. I am sure it would be a good tax issue but I dont have a ton of money or need for that. Me fix it and find someone to buy it and do what she wants or just wait til she's passed and go after the deal through the children. The house can be saved and its on a nice lake here in florida. The roof is about to fall in some places, could I get the county to condemn it and then do something. Dont get me wrong I grew up w/ my grandparents and dont want to screw anyone. I just know how determined some older folks are to stick to their guns and at this rate her house wont be there in another year. The weeds are 6ft high, 2 abandoned cars in yard and falling down. any thoughts?