You can pull lists of abstinence owners etc.  

I most enjoyed the abstinence of light.

The more you can find same/same the easier you might find it.Your age plus or minus a few yearsYour genderYour political leanings (if any)Your similar job typesSomeone from your gym, dance class, yoga, baby tumbling, etc...Introverted or extroverted like you.No scary baggage (creepy stalker Ex's).Same alcohol patterns (abstinence all the way to drink them under the table).Same age kids.etc...and Pluses:Cuts hair and can give discounted hair cuts at home, and etc...Fun to talk to.Same religious leanings.etc..Good Luck!

Guess this didn't include teaching the importance of abstinence prior to marriage.Will we ever do Section 8 again? 

Btw, can you name an Dems who preach abstinence and then have a daughter who has an out-of-wedlock baby with an aspiring porn star?

The solution is not abstinence but finding the right method.

We have been married 25 years, i was a gambler when we met, have had periods of abstinence over the years, but he has (understandably) never been able to trust me (in regard to money) and probably never will.

Much easier to take deductions and avoid or defer income tax...property tax is uncontrollable and unavoidable (barring abstinence).  

@Scott TrenchI would lose my job if taught to this philosophy (quicker than if I taught about abstinence or condoms).

My daughter lives in Houston and I am exploring that rental market a little.What you are describing sounds like a halfway house, in which people who are returning to the mainstream from prison, or are recovering from addiction and learning to live an abstinent life under supervision (and daily testing).