Is it just me, or does it seem as if the BP "higher ups" have a bitter taste in their mouths when mentioning wholesaling? 

They're $129,000 each but he would prefer all properties to be sold together.

What is the financing workaround for someone who would like to acquire 2-5 properties annually and prefers to develop and maintain a relationship with one banker?

AnalyzersI prefer the ones that come with video training. 

When it comes to choosing how to rehab a property for a rental it can be a mistake to use your own personal tastes and standards.

With that will bring headaches, repairs non stop, turnover, vacancy, evictions, etc.I prefer a hybrid of cash flow and appreciation and that’s why I invest in Columbus, Ohio where I can build long term wealth and have good fundamental real estate.

@Wala HabibyInvestment preferably duplex, triplex, but I will go with a SFH if nothings available

Although I typically prefer to work with mortgage brokers as opposed to banks, I would suggest reaching out to some local banks, possibly credit unions, and see if any of them have different loan stipulations that would allow you to purchase the owner-occupied duplex without a cosigner. 

I am currently looking to utilize my VA Loan for a small multi family (preferably a triplex/quadplex)  house hack one unit, and hold the property as a cushion to stabilize myself in my real estate journey.

In my personal preference I would be inclined towards the 2nd route for the time being, which would allow you to make a friend successful AND you would profit nicely.