I’d prefer to stay in Ankeny as opposed to Des Moines.

That could be a great way to find and stay engaged with local investors, realtors and opportunities. http://www.biggerpockets.com/alertsLooks like you've already made some connections with other BP members in your area...You can also search for other investors or brokers in your market and follow their journey on Bigger Pockets here: https://www.biggerpockets.com/search/usersBest of luck to you and look forward to following your success on BP!

Are you comfortable working with Distressed Properties, REO's, Live & Online Auctions and Short Sales?

In commercial I stay busy with direct clients.

We've found they often attract a stronger resident/people will treat them with care & stay longer as it feels like they have their own home. 

@Jeff Stansberry Jacksonville has several small multi families but they rarely stay on the open market.

I hope the best for your success and you continue to stay plugged in.

I wish you luck in being able to work part time if you stay doing what you’re doing you’ll be there before you know it.

If I were you I would buy a primary residence elsewhere (the lower the down payment the better as long as you are comfortable with the numbers) and rent out your current Silicon Valley place. 

Their wives are stay at home moms and some have their kids in private school .