Also, I think we had a conversation about your purchase agreement. 

The simplest thing is good conversation, but not gossip based.

i borrowed 50k from my 401k to buy a 68k property.interest rate is 3.25%, paying over 5 yrs, so roughly $900 out of my paycheck goes directly back to them/me. other than losing the purchasing power of that 50k, it's one of the best decision i ever made. 

You have zero power to mediate anything between them.  

I did call them and the minute they said they were a wholesaler and I said the same the conversation died. 

I can only speak to my area, but in NJ there would be penalties for cutting the power off.

Interesting conversation @Julian Buick, the way I explained to the Pellego guys was that 70% is a filter especially in our area.

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Don't show this to him but use it as a reference during the conversation.

After much debate and conversation he says, "what you should do is have all outward facing sides built with plywood not particle board and that would prevent this from being an issue in the future".