Wholesaling is not easy and to have any success with it you need to either spend a lot of time or a lot of money or both. 

It is interesting fact that most super successful people had rough story in their past.

I think my positive attitude and desire to do the right thing will make me very successful in this business.

I had this happen ~ sort of~but I bought it at a discount and knew I’d be on the hook for the deposits ( triplex) Basically at the closing I signed an affidavit that stated I knew after the successful closing that once I took ownership I’d be responsible for them .

You will be labeled strange, weird, bizarre, cracked, and stupid until you achieve a measure of success in what you do.

It helps achieve privacy and avoids probate in the end.

This is why some buyers when inquiring never hear back from busy commercial brokers because those brokers with vast years of experience can tell by a simple e-mail what the buyer is trying to do and odds of success.

I have been examining deals for weeks to try and get the feel for how to be successful in REI.

Often you need to compromise a bit....but the good news is you're still achieving a lot of the benefit, such as tax write-offs, paying principal down mostly via the rental income, long-term appreciation, and reducing your housing expense significantly. 

Below, you'll find what has helped me take steps toward my pursuit of achieving financial freedom through Real Estate Investing:PodcastsGeneral Real Estate investing (I haven't listened to them all, but these were very impactful for me).