Would it be more attractive to the lender if we did not use as a family getaway and maybe strictly as an AirBNB?

I am retired and investing strictly for cash flow at this stage.

In order to have confidence they can sell the loan, some brokers have a very strict underwriting policy that is a paint by numbers program and one of the boxes might be two months of cash in a bank account, whereas the reality is that they are using the two months as a proxy to provide some sort of comfort around the money is actually your money vs. another loan.   

Trying to make this a strictly business decision, but I won't lie that emotionally I'm bothered by what I consider blatant disrespect (when I've always been easy to work with).WWBPD?

Managing brokers need to provide 2 years of strict supervision of new realtors in order to protect the public from rookie mistakes.

However, I'm quickly realizing that lenders in the area strictly adhere to the Fannie Mae/Freddie Mac guidelines making it hard to receive financing on a rehab project.

The tax expense is not strictly pass-through in that the tenant is paying a fixed rent that didn't take a pro rata property tax in consideration.

Hey guys I am looking to connect with wholesalers in Florida (or anywhere for that matter) I am curious about the concepts of wholesaling and how it works/how strict the state is in Florida.

Deciding on a market/property strictly for cashflow and nothing else is not a great way to build wealth in real estate. 

Can anyone advise a way to dodge lenders strict parameters?