I don’t want to be black balled on a opportunity from asking them over and over.

At 19 you'll be lightyears ahead and already get the ball rolling greatly before you're 21.

Have a GC of yours go in and give you a bid, they'll get you a ball park figure to work with.

Keep trying to save and the day you land your first job celebrate by using your savings to buy an investment property.  

Unfortunately he had an electrical issue ( that engine must not have mags ) but anyone total power failure coming from Truckee one day he was just entering the 45 and of course  could not make the run way.. and landed in the vineyards which cushioned his controlled crash landing.. minor injuries he was lucky.. plane was totaled though.. 

Then get insurance, and set up a Series LLC with a land trust so that you can separate our your properties into individual series or children, and then by using the land trust you can legally transfer the properties our of your own personal name into the land trust that is connected to the Series LLC without the bank or lender getting upset.

What size of land?

If she wants a lump sum you’ll need to find a way to gain possession by either traditional financing, or possibly a land contract or master lease option and then (assuming you can) refinance after a renovation with a quick turnaround.

If you were concerned about anonymity, an LLC is not your best strategy but your kind of late to the ball game as it relates to privacy. 

BRRR method is by far the most profitable way to invest in real estate and create that investing snow ball!