So I just decided to help him out and he is probably never going to know.I am not asking for philosophical or moral lesson in this post, I would have specified otherwise. 

I know you all are wayyyyy more experienced in this than I can prolly ever imagine being but just my opinion. is there something wrong with having morals and ethics ?? 

So the moral of the story is that you're probably going to have to be more dedicated that I was about leafing through the "bad" wholesalers to find the good. 

And if you're morally worried about deals that are "too good," believing there's a high likelihood that if they're like this then you're probably taking advantage of someone in a poverty-stricken or necessitous situation, then you need to readjust your mental approach.

Bankers see that as the ultimate moral hazard cause you'll tell your family, tell your neighbors and ultimately will provide that little nugget of encouragement to get another consumer to try default. 

I'd love to hear your thoughts on my moral quandary here:After researching quite a bit on wholesaling, I am really on the fence about going forward with it.

It may be quite difficult getting into this at your age, but I have definitely seen a couple 17 and 18 year olds doing very well for themselves, so moral of the story.. times are changing, and age won't matter as long as you can provide VALUE to buyers and sellers.

@Brent CoombsOld saying, you can't legislate morality. 

When I had one, he could run the comps, help me with pricing an offer, and give me some moral support! 

I do believe that there is an ethical way to negotiate these deals but there seems to be a huge grey area in between a good deal and predatory that is a slippery slope full of moral hazard and profit motive.