I am active duty military, which gives me access to VA loans, etc, which I’ve heard can be helpful.

Would love to access some off-market deal flow, but all my acquisitions thus far have been via brokers.

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I didn't like not having direct access to the sponsor. 

Also working on collecting resources to expand our potential reach.

Also, as @Mike Dymski was saying, appreciation does matter to a Buy-And-Hold investor as they can access that increased property value through a cash-out refinance or HELOC. 

If you earn $50-$100k with the ability to select the neighborhood you live in, you probably are looking for a safe, well maintained, nice looking, updated, affordable home, in a neighborhood of similar properties, in a good school district, with easy access to shopping and parks and your work.   

Not to expand on the "family dynamics" but I would personally be concerned about having to deal with family requesting access to the property for periods of time as well.

People can expand or contract your thinking and thus your goals...

And i'd also like to start building my portfolio and expanding into small multi's.