It has a conventional 30 year loan.

I would be lending their money and paying myself a loan origination fee and perhaps a spread on the interest the real estate investor is paying and what the lender is receiving on the back end. 

Some companies offer a seasoned vet a draw to move but the draw is repaid by the Loan Officer through his closed loans.4.

Hey everybody I need a small loan for a new flip I am doing and I was wondering who the best hard money lender was?

I was able to rent out the house in 3 weeks and for $2050 / month which covers all the renovation loans and mortgage and cashflows $360 / month.

It'll be more expensive than normal loans because it is mixed use. 

Of being away from your wife and kids for a year, you are also "spending" an extra $19k to qualify for your loan.

I wouldn't mess with a good loan on the one you have.If the existing loan is a high rate I'd think about refinancing. 

The property was acquired through a hard money loan that is expiring soon and I still have not been able to rent a single unit.

I have taken a "loan" against the 401k rather than withdrawing money.