Towing something like that will be more difficult and if you are forced to move it, it is much easier to get a driver than a tow rig that can move it.

But I'd force myself to go and by the time I'd worked out and left, I never regretted going.

It previously had a forced hot air w/oil furnace.

You should also contact the debtors BK attorney and explain that you are seeking to pay on the debt.I agree that you need to act quickly and if you can't get someone to accept payment then you need to hire a BK attorney to assist you in forcing them to accept your payment (and they will take it).

You can leverage your equity in a more intelligent manner and not be forced to lower your standard of living in my opinion. 

This could be done on a fixed rate or an ARM (adjustable rate mortgage).If you were to come to me, my rates and terms are going to depend on the property and your experience as a borrower.  

The only problem I have is the 5Y adjusting rate; are you sure that its not just a 5Y ARM rather than locking in for 5 years then locking for another 5 years, etc.?

Will probably be something we do on our residential arm.

Complete hypotheticals but could happen: not being able to resell with a period of time, having to disclose all profits of sale, having AREC approve the resale of property, forcing the use of a realtor to sell property, and the list could go on. 

When their lease is up there's still nothing to force them to pay or leave other than an eviction anyway.