There are two ways to address the dirty grout problem.

I was fortunate to spend some time a year ago with @Lucas Hall in Knoxville at a multifamily conference, and he addressed this topic for several hundred people very candidly.

We had an account with Terminix so had them come in to address.

When I checked the documentation that was sent by the firm, it was only addressed to the owner and not the lien holders.  

If guest is paying by check we email the filled in lease (it has dates, names, contact info of guest and host, addresses, house rules, cancellation policy, disclaimers, etc) for guest to sign and mail in with the check payment. 

Under the FHA guidelines, could I use a different address than my spouse's?

@Tim Leslie Account Closed For me, it makes sense to figure out what the motivation of a realtor would be to help you and make sure you address that need.

Enclosed vou will find the followingdisclosures as indicated below for your pending loan application with ______1) Federal Truth-In-Lending Disclosure Statement2) Notice to the Home Loan Applicant3)  Disclosure Notices: Affidavit of Occupancy, Anti-Coercion Statement, Fair Credit Reporting Act, FHA Loans/Government Loans4) Equal Credit Opportunity Act5) Flood Disaster Protections Act of 19736) Notice to Applicant of Right to Receive Copy of Appraisal Report7) Patriot Act Information Disclosure8) Servicing Disclosure Statement9) Good Faith Estimate10) 4506T11) Borrower's Certification and Authorization12) Privacy Statement13) Required List of Service Providers Disclosure14) Undisclosed Debt Form15) Homeownership Counseling NoticePlease sign and date each disclosure where indicated and return these documents in theenclosed self addressed return envelope.

Have them mailed to you at her address!

After 2hrs of driving around and people looking a me like I was a creepy crazy person, I wrote down about 20 different addresses.