What specific questions do you have? 

There you will be asked your criteria and then after answering a few questions you will be matched with 3-5 agents or loan officers in your area.

I would guess just based off of the info given that your best bet for wealth building is to go low down payment in NC in a great area (Im down here, if you have any questions shoot me a dm) and hold the NJ property.

I can look back and question my decision to go with him based on a number of warning signs, but we know some of the same people and our trusted friend referred him to us.

You answered your own question here.

Don't hesitate to ask questions and connect with everyone!

My question is can she qualify for a first time home buyer in Upsate New York? 

I work with Property Management side and was born, raised and still reside in Houston so don't hesitate to PM me any questions you have along the way!

After sent them third email and finally got reply but that did not answer my question.

So, you can find successful hosts pretty much everywhere but I'm interested in what the average host makes because I have to be conservative in my assumptions.If you have friends who are hosting successfully there, I'm not sure why you don't ask them your questions.