My goal is to pick up a few properties for rentals here in NorCal, mainly for my family, and to begin to network with RE pros.

I am trying to start networking.

Hello BP,I would like to connect with some investors/buyers in
the NNJ area. (Essex and Union Counties)

It is always good to network with people in your area.I am located in Syracuse, if you make it out east!

I am trying to start networking.

Networking/ word of mouth12.

Come to network, talk shop, and enjoy yourself.We're going to try and formalize the gatherings a bit with speakers, but expect the usual laid back, easy-going networking event!

I currently remotely manage an STR (although it's only a few hours away) using a combination of Evolve Vacation Rental network and technology such as Nexia/Schlage digital door locks and other automation hacks for guest communication. 

This is what I would recommend if I was starting my REI journey from the beginning: Read Brandon Turner's book on Rental Property Investing https://www.amazon.com/Book-Rental-Property-Investing-Passive-ebook/dp/B018UTI2DOListening to the BP Real Estate podcast https://www.biggerpockets.com/podcastListening to the BP money podcast https://www.biggerpockets.com/moneyshowAttend your local REIA meetings to network (search for your area https://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/521-events-and-happenings)Start analyzing deals to get practiceEngage more on the BP forumsPost a profile pic :)All the best!

As far as willing to work with you try your local realestate networking groups.