She now works for other firms in the Houston area.Our short term goal is to start out with wholesaling to pay off some debt and build up our savings.

Depending on your available income and debt to income, you may not qualify for many of them. 

The pre-settlement HUD says his LLC (only)... as a lender I want to be protected... so can we change the HUD to also include my LLC too at this stage?

Although, ideally I think I'd retire any and all real-estate debt at that point, hold what I'very aquired, and do more fix and flip.Regarding campground/Tiny Home, island property is an entity all its own, with added layers of regulation, etc.  

You will most likely get a letter asking what you paid for the property so return it will a copy of your settlement statement as it couldn't hurt !

Good attorneys have many cases available to them, and unless they have a really good reason to take on a case that requires extra discovery time/costs with a smaller chance of producing a viable settlement or judgement, they often will lean toward pursuing cases with people having properties in their personal names.

I was single, debt-free, with plenty of time on my hands and just enough money to make my first purchase and grow from there.

of course income debt ratios have to be considered 

You should also understand unrelated business income especially unrelated debt financed income UDFI.

Also, I'm in rather dire financial straits to be looking at 35k down properties; While I don't have any debt, I'm not employed and don't have much of a nest egg.