She said that she had to be very careful when selling a home of a person who goes into assisted or nursing facilites etc.

The IRS more often than not rules against cases like this- at least, this is what I've witnessed and heard from investors and exchange facilitators.

The buyer's bank works with an independent appraisal agency, who then facilitates the assignment of an appraiser.  

Do I need a company that facilitates the transaction?

And how do you plan on facilitating this deal?

. * Check your state laws and talk to a REI attorney and escrow/title company about facilitating the transaction and all the needed paperwork for your area. 

Probably I should be working with a realtors where the properties are located to help me find buyers and facilitate the process.Thank you

As I understand it, if a person is a licensed agent acting in a facilitator capacity and the referral fee for a capital introduction is incidental to brokerage activity (buying or selling real estate) the agent is not acting as an unregistered finder or broker dealer.

If you depart from cash basis accounting you should really look into an accounting software that will facilitate this or hire someone.

It seems they have no motivation to get this done quickly, and they don't care that half of our home is destroyed and we are living in poor conditions.More than anything we just want the repairs made, but if the weeks keep adding up, we also would like compensation for the HOA's/insurance company's inability to facilitate the repairs.