I have created a good Absentee with Equity and I get a steady stream of probate lists. What would be another list I could create with listsource.com to hit another good part of the market?

You'll for sure get pointed in the right direction.

Depending on how you plan to allocate your overhead (for instance- if hours are you main cost driver), you may want to integrate with some other apps on the platform.You may want to speak to an accountant that has worked with implementing these types of systems (apps + job/project costing + class tracking) as they could help point you in the right direction. 

The next year, as it always happens, needing the funds, the bank that was used for the 401k account was closed and that bank holding those funds wrote the check out directly to me which went into a personal account.

Are there other options you offer, like a third party option for paying with credit ie (paypal) or a direct bank draft from a checking or savings- looking for ideas/options

Follow-up with an attorney if you are concerned about liability.I don't have any direct advice for you without knowing your situation and more details. 

That only leaves you with a few options.Change your buying criteria (price, location, property type, ect...)Stick to your criteria/wait (you will likely be left with the same results for awhile)Find a new approach to find deals (direct mail, REIA groups, working with an agent, ect...)Seems to me if you want to get in the game you will need to change something.

Just never been able to get to the point of paying cash for a home to start flipping. 2nd: After talking to some different prospects, I have been directed here, I was told I can get in touch with individuals that help front the funding for flipping homes. 3rd: The Question.

I am direct residential lender, and when I read about how transactional funding works, I get stumped on some issues I would love clarified.1.

As Alpesh mentioned, if you could be a bit more specific - I can definitely try and point you in the right direction.