My stove is like that now and I always have to remember to not have anything hanging over the edge.

The pics are of the living room wall with the air return hole and the other two are inside the wall looking to the top. there appears to be a 2x4 header however I am wanting to cut down about a foot and a half run  new 2x4 studs against the existing stud and put up a new header consisting of 2 2x4s about 6 ft long  to hold across the top of the breakfast bar. however I need to make sure this is sufficient there is no second floor just an attic above the wall. any one have any knowledge of this kind of situation. hope I made sence here.

That nearly put me over the edge at the time.  

One idea is to cut them in on the profits of the sale. 

My wife was downstairs in the basement cutting someone's hair.

You put the broker in the awkward position of cutting their own throat, so to speak.

Leaving the utility bill in my name on a SFH and forgetting to cut it off for 2 months :(  

If still a few years, I would suggest you buy something in the outskirts of Bloomington [near campus is too expensive for the most part] - even though I have seen some REO 4 unit properties near the stadium that would be great to house hack.Otherwise, look for HUD and other REO homes around the edge of town or even Elletsville.If you commute from Columbus, then pick up a low cost REO there and go through the process - you will learn tons.Also, Brad Grayson is a speaker/trainer and successful landlord [over 200 SFH] from Columbus as well - I would suggest you seek him out and go to an event that he is speaking at.At 19, I would start ASAP.  

This is an investment and it does get emotional, but you should pay attention to the numbers also, and be critical.A glass of wine helps me take the edge off and take some distance from the deal.

But you also may run across a portfolio that an investor is willing to share and you can cut down on some of the closing costs by making it one transaction.