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26 October 2012 | 7 replies
As I am sure you are already aware, this community is a fantastic place to learn and develop your REI skills!
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8 November 2012 | 9 replies
I have basically been doing the same thing as you Kevin, reading books, blogs, and forum posts, and I figured until I can build negotiating skills I would start out by Bird-Dogging my way into REI (J Lamar Ferren).
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14 November 2012 | 25 replies
However I have looked at a few properties in the area and my Mom (5'2" middle aged woman) did home nursing care in the area taught at the skills center on Clifford Brown.
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9 November 2012 | 5 replies
I am skilled and experienced, and have close family that I will pay under the table to utilize their incredible skills.I've got 3 college degrees, a great job thats steady that I plan to keep, I'm stubborn, and have an impeccable skill known as researching and studying.
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13 November 2012 | 9 replies
My business would not be nearly as far along if I did not have a partner that has complimentary skills, a strong work ethic, a desire to succeed, and a great relationship.
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14 November 2012 | 6 replies
It will get easier and it will get fun when you become skilled.
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18 November 2012 | 13 replies
And maybe consider improving your people skills.
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18 November 2012 | 7 replies
I have also negotiated escrow fee charges down on many, many occassions.Your negotiation skills do not end at acquisition of contracts, they go beyond that, so use them!
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20 November 2012 | 9 replies
If any of you have any skills, try to leverage those.You may have to make some serious and very painful adjustments.
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24 November 2012 | 13 replies
Focus on acquiring skills that have a higher value in the marketplace than working in retail does.