Here at BP, you can take advantage of all the free resources at your disposal. 

I figured if house hacking became the norm it might look more like friends and family pooling together resources to eradicate the hefty expense of housing.

Anyone have any recommendations on good resources for this focus?

As far as which tenants to target, that would be up to the individual investors goals and risk tolerance.

You are actually on the right track by being a member of BiggerPockets.Take advantage of all the free resources available to you (blogs, podcast, articles) on here, and network with more experienced investors on here and be a sponge. 

There are some great resources here - https://www.trustetc.com/self-directed-ira/rules/ubit

Any suggestions for rules, resources or websites would be greatly appreciated.Thanks, Maureen  

Consider working with a list broker to get a targeted mailing list for the area. 

In general they are a great resource for the DIY landlord.Best of Luck!

A quick google search for NC brought me this result: https://www.lawhelpnc.org/resource/proper-notice-o...I would start with the town where you have your property and ask about eviction rules or look for them on their website.Best!