Their lawyer told me that the family would not be able to apply for medicaid for the mother if they sold the life estate for less than what the state deems it is worth using a table to calculate the value.

Every state and broker is different, so I won't share the legalese that I use since it may not apply.

Make him aware that you still have the final say and can apply force 

I would recommend making a written list of your own, then disqualify applicants on that aspect.Dear Prospective Tenant,Thank you for visiting and applying.

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And if so, did they know you are applying for the loan as an investor, not an owner-occupant? 

Do wholesale laws apply to where I reside or where the property is sold?

@Ryan Duel I’ve been told that there is a grey area in the “intending” to live in the residence and that depending on your lender you may have the opportunity to rent it out and apply for a 2nd VA Loan. 

So you end up needing to purchase at least 1.2 in real estate using $900K of proceeds.But first you took $500K in boot (remember, normally taxable but going to be applied against your 121 exemption). 

You must learn the fundamentals and then apply them.