Do they collect full doc and calc DTI or do they push that off onto you the lender (forcing you to get their full doc is not DF compliant).   

They will push the ARV/value or have their in house appraisal push the ARV/value because they want to make the loan.  

@Paul GarciaIt sounds like you are current getting the credit report pushed to you in a "soft" hit.  

There are a lot of REI here as well as hedge fund buyers pushing up the prices at the auctions. 

I recommend getting a 30 year loan to push down that mortgage payment to a more workable number.

If you're house flipping, and the house is 50% complete you'll need to add more money just to finish, which will likely push you from a profit into a loss.3.

This sales strategy, rooted in psychological reactance, also holds true when selling. 

And like @Perry Ivy mentioned about birth traits, I will add to that: If you ever had conflicts with your siblings growing up, you can bet they will resurface again....what will appear to be a conflict with your business will actually turn out to be some deep-rooted, unresolved issues from childhood once you start drilling down to resolve the disagreement. 

I know they’re not trying to push tenants out or discourage tenants from renewing their lease in order to make more revenue because I know it’s a lot of work to advertise, screen, and place a tenant.

KC is a nice place but on biggerpockets it seems like it gets pushed awfully hard as the end all be all of cities to invest in.