Memphis Invest would be one group to look at.If you're looking to be more of an active, hands-on investor, you need to decide whether your situation is going to allow you to travel to a market(s) for acquisitions or whether you would rather have boots on the ground in those markets.  

Definitely not the rockstar tenants type of situation here haha

So currently im paying mortgage and hoa on a property that is gone and im curious if there is something i should be looking into to make my situation better before its rebuilt. 

@Eli M.The situation with your lender sounds a bit odd but I suppose different strokes for different lenders. 

As prior Military myself I have to agree with what @Nathaniel Cherubini said, contact his command and let them know the situation. 

Here's the situation...1.

It is good business practice to keep from being put in a bad situation.

Not knowing your full situation is hard to give advice.

I hope If you own other oroowrty you learn from thIs sItuation . sadly You probably lost every penny you ever got in rent over all those years

And it's difficult to 'storyboard' a situation not knowing how bad the downturn will be.