I suppose the AVARAGE Canadian family would sit beside me at the restaurant and have their bill total $75 with drinks etc...TIP:GROUPON + GROUPON PROMO CODES like 10$ off first groupon or 50% off flash sale.

How do you know that she wasn't at fault (alcohol, etc) ?

We also have a tenant who is a recovering alcoholic and formerly homeless who needed a solid place to get away from family and "friends" that were enabling past behavior.  

It will be a free event which will also be serving drinks and finger foods. 

For instance my first meeting I went and talked to a few guys around my age and after joking a bit asked them if they wanted to grab drinks sometime on me.

Your bowling partner, your riding partner, your drinking partner or your spouse? 

You just have to pay for your own drinks and food.  

Offer a cold drink on the hot days, hot drink on the cold days, help keep the property clean, even help shovel snow from steps.

Better espresso drinks.

I've paid special assessments for the roof (not covered by insurance because the former alcoholic that the former board hired threw a cinder block through it - voiding the warranty, etc).