I'm still working on getting my processes rock solid at this point.

That is some solid cash flow and a lot of equity you bought into. 

You also have evidence she's been paying her current bills.

But my guess is you're on pretty solid ground.

Complement it with a solid lead provider, like virtual driving for dollars and you can balance the resources.4) JV with other wholesalers, brokerages or outsourcing firms.Together we are stronger, it's not only an inspirational quote, our clients have experienced that if you cooperate with other wholesalers or business relatives you can generate higher chances of putting deals together and generate steady flows of profit, at a higher level.

There are a lot of solid markets in Ohio you might want to consider.

Ohio has some solid markets to get started in @Austin Paulenske

Does anyone have a line on a solid agent/lender in the area who can help me with locating a great property that will suit my needs since I am so unfamiliar with the area?

You could easily put the other $860k towards purchasing a few rentals with solid investment loans, and be able to easily make enough cashflow to cover your monthly living cost for you primary.

I am a fairly new investor in the El Paso area and have been trying to establish a solid team and I am finding it very difficult...I'm sure I am not the only one.