Some fear going it alone, others are in a relationship and want/need their partner’s support, some are afraid of change, and others are too comfortable with their current conditions to be motivated to change.

I don't have a single client with >3 Bay Area mortgages that has the day-job income to support those 3 Bay Area loan amounts (we're talking $1m to $5m in debt here, easily), so yes it's certainly possible.

Happy to chat directly but too much to type here.

I'll at this meetup in Long Beach on Sep 12th: https://www.meetup.com/Out-of-State-Multifamily-Apartment-Investors-Meetup/events/250364203 so if you're there, let's say hi and chat! 

They make drop-down ceilings that hide the support bars, such that the ceiling looks like the old-time tin ceilings.

My wife has been super supportive from day 1.

Would love to chat!

Check out the recommendation that I wrote on his profile page, and feel free to PM me if it would be helpful to chat about my experience.

Realistically you are looking for someone who will be able to afford to support the property on their own. 

I understand this can't be done with the same person consistiently as it would be disallowed, but there must be a lot of other people out there caught in this same bind: thousands of dollars of retirement funds that are hard to use to support your real estate investing.