Family of 4 - grandma, father and 2 grandkidsGrandma is carrying family on her shoulders with good job, credit, etc.It's been about 2 years and she seems stressed out getting behind on payments (never totally missed).Unable to keep the place clean, father is unemployed with girlfriends moving in.....The last straw was her report of bed bugs last week.....Kids are getting bit up, and they're all over the kids room.This is in a 2br of a multi-fam condo, that has never had bedbugs.... in the building.....I can't take this on anymore, with enormous potential liability looming now.....Strange enough..... 

(Might be a "right-brain/left-brain" thing, but all of the buttons and links are confusing.)

The language used looks to me that they are stressing the As Is sale and they don't provide any disclosures.   

I cannot stress the importance of finding a very good Investor Friendly CPA.

I find it so ridiculous to watch someone stressing over which flooring to choose while there are real troubles in the world today (I read too much of the news I suppose).

I am lucky that I am married to a woman and she has been saving money for about 25 years and takes a bunch of stress off me and we live in a house that the mortgage has been paid off and we have a daughter that wanted to go to college and my wife is paying for that.  

I'm so stressed, anxious, tired, exhausted, at a lost...I wrote this long book so that you guys can know what it is going on and will best be able to assist, guide, provide advice. 

If it breaks in 5 years and I have to replace it (as opposed to repairing it), then I have 5 years of reserve to assist in paying for it, and I take the capital loss on my tax return for the difference.It's not perfect but for me, it's easier than tracking everything down to a penny (I press the button to depreciate property for the month in my accounting software and I transfer the expense amount to a savings account for reserves).

And if some sod re-seed is all it took to take the stress of crappy new tenants of him- he was happy. 

In my situation, a December closing would be perfect if I didn't have to make a loan payment for 45-60 days, because I could get the painting, flooring, etc done, before I move in and I would still be in my apartment and not have to stress about moving, as I would have until the end of February.Conversely, if I didn't close until late January or February, I'd have less time to get things done that are easier to do when it's empty, because if lease was up,then I would have to move out, since I wouldn't want to make a mortgage and rent payment (if at all possible).