You essentially have bad credit, title complications and a past short sale.

It's been an exhilarating, creative, and fun experience and at the same time stressful and complicated at times.

I think that you're probably right about building being maybe too complicated for the first one.

Terms on commercial can be about the same as residential, 3-5 year balloons, it's more complicated to underwrite and set up the financing strategy.I don't really agree with Tim's assessment overall, but it certainly depends on the type of property, the buyer and alternative financing sources.One issue that is common is the lack of management abilities of a buyer, when you have a business manager type, like a C-store manager trying to buy out the owner, there are many areas of ownership that are beyond the expertise of a store manager and they usually are weak on the down payment side as well.

You and your mom would get money out of the deal and could move on to another life stage without the complications of the house/dad dynamic. 

It's not complicated. 

it is more complicated than this but that is the concept.

Your SDIRA or solo 401k plan can not buy ANY property, or portion thereof, from yourself as YOU are a disqualified party to the plan.You can "partner" with your plan, but the rules and steps are complicated and if not done exactly right, you risk executing a prohibited transaction.Lastly, a SDIRA is NOT far superior to a 401k plan "because the tax advantages on the back end being Tax Free." - as this statement is false.

If it's not, get more folks in the door to look at the place.I am sorry if we have over complicated this for you with our going back and forth with each other here.

I hope that is not to complicated for the appraiser to answer.