Fix n Flip/wholesale will give you the quickest ROI, but also are time intensive and I know you mentioned you have an issue missing out on time with your kids.BRRRR/buy and hold are the best for long-term wealth-building, but you won't become an overnight success story with either of these methods.

Looking for suggestions and stories on how other investors found this type of private money lender.

BTW; what's the story on the boyfriend who will also be living there?

Now collecting the judgement is another story.

I enjoyed reading your condensed story.

True story a friend told me. 

Oh, and what is the story with your other property?

Every deal has a story and something learned that can be shared with others at all stages of their investment journey.

@Jaron Walling The clickbait videos and news stories are popping up everywhere.  

Take advantage of networking while sharing your story with all of us.