That's quite a collection of horror stories there my friend....you might win this one....

So they never buy and move out.From the owner's view, it's win win.

If you join, please use me as a reference,  I'm trying to win the prize at the Christmas party this year.

Being a former Division-1 baseball player, team captain, and avid skier, Greg brings his leadership and a desire to win from the very first handshake to the closing table.

And, I agree with Ali, every time you have a win, tell them!  

Eric Worre says that every situation he faces ends one of two ways:  He wins, or he learns. 

I'd also say, at least from my perspective, "I'm trying to make it a "win win" for everyone is more urban legend than reality.

I know you don't want to pay for an attorney, but ask the attorney if he or she thinks they can get attorneys fees awarded from your family if you win.

Disadvantages: -hard to save the cash or find the money-finding the bank to do the refi-meeting the appraisal amount to match or exceed your cash in-opportunity cost of having the money tied upAdvantages:Easier to win deals (taken more seriously by deal finders)Lower holding costs

You can reach out to @Lynda Evans to get more information, but this may be helpful to you as the speaker is a wholesale "guru" (and former Chargers player) and there are a lot of wholesalers in the crowd who can give you their opinion as well.