So I'm not struggling but my thing now is getting this moving and getting to the next property or deal.

For me personally, I would continue the monthly payments on your home since I assume you're not struggling to make payments and use the funds from your mother's home to leverage into purchasing properties for your portfolio.

Risk it with all the borrowed money and high payments and costs to borrow or wait till we have more cash on hand to lessen the struggle to make payments and risk only losing cash and not cash and credit?

Hello, referral fees are an area of REI that I have struggled with for a long time.

Many title insurance companies and lawyers often "struggle" with the concept of wholesaling.

I was struggling with this subject.

Repairs are a struggle as handyman in general are bad or unreliable.

Now, marketing isn't much of a struggle for you as you clearly got a deal from doing just that. 

IMO,  there's nothing worse than struggling to achieve X and when you get there, you find yourself ALL ALONE.RE is work, Marriage is work(I have evidence after 50yrs) - - find something that draws you together rather than keeps you apart working on individual projects.

That has proved false, so maybe now I'm just struggling against a sunk-cost fallacy, even though the cost has just been paying the inspector.