seems like that is a bank refi situation not a raise private money so the owners have little to no skin in the game

Unfortunately if multiple visitors come to visit the tenant, and those visitors have a private conversation then I don’t think that applies for consent since the tenant isn’t a part of that specific convo.

Since these disclosures are private, and not part of the public record, it does not violate the anonymity you’re seeking.Please feel free to connect with me if you’d like to know more.

I'll send you a private message to discuss further.

Note that there is a fair housing testing program and they send investigators every now and then. 

Some private lenders will sell REOs with title issues, knowing that they'll take a hit on their selling price.

Are you paying cash or financing, and if so, what does the mortgage payment look like, or private money interest look like. 

There are definitely some private lenders out there that can be of assistance for you.

Hard money, private or traditional?

Reason I didn't mention it is because my girlfriend and I are thinking of moving in down the road (year or two) and I know we'd want our own private space.